vladykins @ 5/1/2018 5:59

Primate @ 4/1/2018 23:14 I'm kind of a douche sometimes. Sometimes? :vlady:

Yeah. Sometimes I'm sweet and thoughtful. Just to fuck with people.

Primate @ 4/1/2018 23:14

I'm a douche always.

fyp

Dana Nessel for Attorney General of Michigan

I think it's only fair that she has to prove she doesn't have a penis.

"Every time a woman says "a man touched me with no apparent consideration for my enjoyment or agency, and it sucked," dudes are like "well what do you want us to do?! Boycott him?! Throw him in jail? SET HIM ON FIRE? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO DRAMATIC???!?!?" When the actual answer, if they bothered to listen, is so often just "understand that it sucks when you do this, and do it less." They put words in our mouths about wild, dire punishments rather than spend a half second trying to empathize.

What if men held themselves and each other to a higher standard of behavior than baseline legality? What if your hopes for a sexual encounter exceeded "not a crime"? I don't know, I feel like that'd be cool." ~Lindsay King-Miller

vladykins @ 17/1/2018 14:17

"Every time a woman says "a man touched me with no apparent consideration for my enjoyment or agency, and it sucked," dudes are like "well what do you want us to do?! Boycott him?! Throw him in jail? SET HIM ON FIRE? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO DRAMATIC???!?!?" When the actual answer, if they bothered to listen, is so often just "understand that it sucks when you do this, and do it less." They put words in our mouths about wild, dire punishments rather than spend a half second trying to empathize. What if men held themselves and each other to a higher standard of behavior than baseline legality? What if your hopes for a sexual encounter exceeded "not a crime"? I don't know, I feel like that'd be cool." ~Lindsay King-Miller

That's a terrible take

The whole point of this "me too" bullshit is to publicly shame and end of the careers of men that sexually abused people and have never had to face justice or whatever.

Then when this whole Aziz Ansari thing drops and the witch hunt feminist people are like "FUCKIN GOT ANOTHER ONE"

But then when you read the story and find out that he didn't assault anyone and reasonable people start coming to his defense all these wacky "me too" bitches start backtracking like "whoa whoa whoa, we just want to hold men to a higher standard"

GET THE FUCK OUTTA HERE

The reason dudes are like "well what do you want us to do?! Boycott him?! Throw him in jail? SET HIM ON FIRE? WHY ARE YOU BEING SO DRAMATIC???!?!?" Is beause thats the only thing these whack jobs have been asking for up to this point.

And if you think I'm being an alarmist on this issue there are still TONS of crazy bitches on Twitter trying to make it seem like this Aziz should pay with his career for having awkward sex with some bitch who doesn't have the word NO in her vocabulary.

This is only going to get worse and worse. People love to be victims and it's all the rage to say you were sexually assaulted even when you weren't.

Im just glad there are reasonable people out here that sees this bullshit for what it actually is (and yes oddly enough, Buffy is one of those people)

Chris25 @ 17/1/2018 14:51

The whole point of this "me too" bullshit is to publicly shame and end of the careers of men that sexually abused people and have never had to face justice or whatever.

This starting quote reminds me of the classic Calvin and Hobbes comic:

Seriously though, the next thing you know, women are going to start claiming they were sexually assaulted because a guy offered to buy them lunch and called them beautiful

It's a crazy fucking world we live in.

@ Chris: Did you see that story about the OU Sooners RB that was accused of rape back in Dec?

Chris25 @ 17/1/2018 15:07

Seriously though, the next thing you know, women are going to start claiming they were sexually assaulted because a guy offered to buy them lunch and called them beautiful It's a crazy fucking world we live in.

Depends. In a bar? Sure, no problem. At work? Not good, especially if you are the boss. There is an example I saw online about this:

Dude 1: I can't believe she didn't like me saying that she is beautiful! I just want to compliment her without it being a major case!
Dude 2: We've worked together for five years and you've never told me I'm beautiful.
Dude 1: Of course not. We're dudes!
Dude 2: That's sad, because I think you're beautiful.
Dude 1: Cut that out, man. You're making me uncomfortable!
Dude 2: Then how do you think she feels?

I think you're beautiful vlady



Also, I now envision Calvin speaker when you post

vladykins @ 17/1/2018 15:17

Chris25 @ 17/1/2018 15:07 Seriously though, the next thing you know, women are going to start claiming they were sexually assaulted because a guy offered to buy them lunch and called them beautiful It's a crazy fucking world we live in. Depends. In a bar? Sure, no problem. At work? Not good, especially if you are the boss. There is an example I saw online about this: Dude 1: I can't believe she didn't like me saying that she is beautiful! I just want to compliment her without it being a major case! Dude 2: We've worked together for five years and you've never told me I'm beautiful. Dude 1: Of course not. We're dudes! Dude 2: That's sad, because I think you're beautiful. Dude 1: Cut that out, man. You're making me uncomfortable! Dude 2: Then how do you think she feels?

Classic sexual assault Fire him, publicly shame him and do everything possible to make sure that Dude 1 never works in this town again

Chris25 @ 17/1/2018 15:25

vladykins @ 17/1/2018 15:17 Chris25 @ 17/1/2018 15:07 Seriously though, the next thing you know, women are going to start claiming they were sexually assaulted because a guy offered to buy them lunch and called them beautiful It's a crazy fucking world we live in. Depends. In a bar? Sure, no problem. At work? Not good, especially if you are the boss. There is an example I saw online about this: Dude 1: I can't believe she didn't like me saying that she is beautiful! I just want to compliment her without it being a major case! Dude 2: We've worked together for five years and you've never told me I'm beautiful. Dude 1: Of course not. We're dudes! Dude 2: That's sad, because I think you're beautiful. Dude 1: Cut that out, man. You're making me uncomfortable! Dude 2: Then how do you think she feels? Classic sexual assault Fire him, publicly shame him and do everything possible to make sure that Dude 1 never works in this town again

LOL- I love how you jump to that when I haven't said anything. Is your boss a dude? Do you want him to ask you out to lunch and tell you you look great in those pants?

Dadd @ 17/1/2018 15:19

I think you're beautiful vlady Also, I now envision Calvin speaker when you post

I strive to be beautiful.