Wait, I thought this girls topic was for sexy pics or something, not discussing relationship goals.

<_<

In any case though, good luck with that thing Tim, but in my experience is better to talk honestly with them about what's going on rather than assuming what the other person might think (I found this rather hard but oh well).

Also, in any case time heals everything...

Except death, that's just not possible...

And most chronic diseases.

I've decided I'm going to record a message and send it to her saying basically if she doesn't care about me I need to hear her say it and I'll walk away but as it stands I'm not ready to throw my heart away. I'm not going to try and get some huge letter to her or something, just a message so she can hear me (which, if I expect to hear her, she should hear me too). I won't acknowledge her anymore after I send it unless she contacts me. So this will probably be the end of it. I'm going to go out fighting though because fuck spending five months investing myself in her just to give up when all hope seems lost. I have to try one more time.

I haven't given it my everything. Not yet.

It's even the same shirt.

Mercator @ 3/12/2014 10:38

It's even the same shirt.

And the same intelligence level if he still thinks this is a real chick he's been talking to for the past 5 months.

Every time I thought I should send them some big message about how shitty they are I have been inceedibly thankful I never actually did it

You become more undesirable the most desperate you get tbh.

In other news my ex who just made a party that was for 4 other peoples birthdays all about her! Basically women are awful and crazy but tits are fun to touch so what can we do?

You're an idiot. I've spoken to her before and her Facebook is still there, she still posts things on her timeline and talks to her friends. She also has hundreds of pictures. Stop telling me she's a catfish.

I checked on another Facebook account I have to see if she still had an account.

KC @ 3/12/2014 10:45

You become more undesirable the most desperate you get tbh.

Which is really fucking stupid honestly since they fucking claim they want you to work for their affection and do things that come off needy. At least with her. Shouldn't generalize all women.

No we should generalize them. GIR KLAUS , AM I RIGHT GUYS?!

Whoa wtf auto correct

I mean think of it this way: she has the mentality that if I move on and don't speak to her ever again and date another girl that she was right all along to be worried about investing in me and trusting me. Self-fulfilling prophecy. She worries I'm not genuine and will leave her, I move on and "confirm" her BS

Thats what I thought, "she needs to know she was wrong and that shes a ball of shit" when really it was 'she is too crazy for the effort"

Ms. Marvel Leos @ 3/12/2014 11:52

No we should generalize them. GIR KLAUS , AM I RIGHT GUYS?!

You're really not proving anything because she'll find another reason. Girls are not good at breaking up in my experience and my exes would pull any reason out of their ass to justify the shitty way they treated me. My ex flat out said she wasn't ready for a relationship and couldn't commit to me even though she loved me, then literally that same week she's plastering her Facebook with some douchey looking gunt with tribal tats and muscles. All she was doing was finding any reason to get me to move on from her so she could justify being a shitty person without actually admitting that she was.

This girl is doing the same shit, I've seen it happen too much to not know. And yes I know, not all people are the same, but still. I kind of saw this happening my Tim.