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primate
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| Post #18886: 1st May 2019 11:10 AM | |
Congrats Josh! | | |
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gabagool
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| Post #18887: 3rd May 2019 7:03 AM | |
Do we have an ADVICE thread on FE?!
I NEED SOME | "All this from a slice of gabagool?" |
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gabagool
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| Post #18888: 3rd May 2019 7:03 AM | |
Also CONGRATS JOSH! | "All this from a slice of gabagool?" |
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Grumpy Ass Old Woman
FU DADD
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| Post #18889: 3rd May 2019 7:11 AM | |
Hi Maddie. How can I be of service? |
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Curtis
First Place Dick
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| Post #18890: 3rd May 2019 8:04 AM | |
Uh oh | |
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primate
Eff Ewe DADD!
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| Post #18891: 3rd May 2019 8:19 AM | |
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Do we have an ADVICE thread on FE?!
I NEED SOME |
I am an expert on nothing, but my advice is free.
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gabagool
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| Post #18892: 3rd May 2019 9:03 AM | |
I have to get in touch with my ex-boyfriend, who I haven’t spoken to in 3+ years for some of my pre-employment paperwork aaaaaand I have no idea how to approach the whole thing lol.
We haven’t really spoken since we broke up and it wasn’t great. | "All this from a slice of gabagool?" |
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primate
Eff Ewe DADD!
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| Post #18893: 3rd May 2019 9:41 AM | |
Oooh! That's tough. 3 years is a pretty long time, though. Do you have any mutual friends who could help facilitate/mediate? | | |
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Josh
my pronouns are they/them
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| Post #18894: 3rd May 2019 9:45 AM | |
Just be casual. It’ll be weird for you both but go at it from a neutral perspective to start. Try to avoid person talk unless he brings it up first cause it always seems forced if it’s prefaced/followed by you asking for something. | | |
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gabagool
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| Post #18895: 3rd May 2019 10:15 AM | |
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| Oooh! That's tough. 3 years is a pretty long time, though. Do you have any mutual friends who could help facilitate/mediate? |
We do, but I haven’t talked to them in forever either. They’re all in the UK.
We were also together for 3 years.
And Josh—my sister basically said the same thing and that I should just draft an email that says what I need in the subject line lol. | "All this from a slice of gabagool?" |
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primate
Eff Ewe DADD!
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| Post #18896: 3rd May 2019 10:48 AM | |
Yeah stick to business for sure. | | |
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Havo
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| Post #18897: 3rd May 2019 10:50 AM | |
Yeah, I’d say be direct. Cordial but not too casual. Almost professional. | | |
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Curtis
First Place Dick
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| Post #18898: 3rd May 2019 11:00 AM | |
Get back together
Get what you need
Dump him
Who else needs my help | |
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gabagool
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| Post #18899: 3rd May 2019 11:36 AM | |
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Get back together
Get what you need
Dump him
Who else needs my help |
He has a girlfriend!!!!
Also HELL NAH | "All this from a slice of gabagool?" |
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Dyl
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| Post #18900: 3rd May 2019 12:58 PM | |
I’d get in touch with the girlfriend to help you out. That’d show that you aren’t a threat. | "So, uh, what are we saying here? If we save LA from a nuclear bomb, then you and I can get together for dinner and a movie?"
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